Mom, mom, mommy! Special ways of including a special lady
Well, guys, tomorrow is the big day - I'm getting induced at 6 AM and I've been nesting like CRAZY! Even my husband has a little bit of the nesting bug going on. I thought I was a little over the top sometimes when it came to planning and organizing weddings, but preparing for this baby has me on another level! I wanted to sit down and write one more blog before I take some time to bond with the little nugget, and I just couldn't help but feel like it was totally appropriate to write about ... moms, and how to include them in some special way for your wedding.
My inspiration for this blog stems from the weddings I've seen lately, being pregnant. Being pregnant and seeing the mother/son dances - oh GOSH, the tears I shed over these moments. This was always such a special time to witness, but it especially hit home knowing that one day, maybe, I might have a special dance like that with my son. There are tons of other ways to have your mom included in the big day, however, whether you're the bride or the groom! Here's just a quick list to get you thinking.
1. Have her there for a first look: First looks aren't just for the couple anymore. First looks are becoming more and more popular to do with the bridal party and family members! Capturing this moment forever would make mom's day.
2. Include special traditions: Does your family have special traditions that would fit into the wedding plans? Some of my family members, including my mom, speak Serbian, so saying "Nostrovia!" (meaning "Cheers!") was something that sprinkled its way into our wedding day to help those family members feel honored and included.
3. Surprise her with a gift: There are tons of gift ideas out there for mom, whether you're the bride or the groom, and whether you're wanting to honor the mother of the bride, mother of the groom, or both! Try Etsy for some really thoughtful, personalized ideas. Check out this cute keepsake box from "Susabellas" on Etsy.
4. A walk down the aisle: This is another tradition that isn't so typical anymore - meaning, if you're the bride, you can definitely have mom walk you down the aisle, as well! It shows how meaningful your relationship is to one another. This is something mom will truly never forget.
5. Photos she'll love: Mom would probably love some traditional family photos of just the two of you, but it's also so great to have photos of the little, candid moments, as well. Even better, maybe you can take some of these photos and include them in a gift later on!
6. Take a piece of her day with you: Ask mom if she would be willing to share a part of her wedding dress or day to be included/re-used for your wedding. Think of using a part of her veil, a part of her dress, some of her flowers if she was able to save any of these .. talk to mom and see what you two can come up with!
Okay, not going to lie. Just thinking of some of these ideas makes me want to cry as I sit and think about my own little guy finding his own happiness one day, whatever that looks like. I honestly can't wait for all the memories we're about to make together! With that said, I'm out and will get back into blogging once things settle down around here. See you all when I'm a mom!
